Traits of An Insecure Partner

 


i) Constant need for approval

If you notice that your partner lives on the attention and recognition given by the outside world rather than being satisfied by his own achievements on his own, then there might be a problem.

His happiness seems to depend on you building up their esteem and this can be troublesome because it will be draining the life out you and soon you’ll have nothing left to give.

We are not saying that seeking approval once in a while is cause for alarm, we are human after all, but if you notice that he can’t function if people don’t recognize the things he wants them to notice and his self-esteem gets shot to dust then that’s definitely a sign of an insecure person.

ii) They are a one-way ticket emotional roller coasters

They are up and then down. One minute they love you so much and then the next they have lost interest in you. Sometimes you really can’t tell where you stand with them and it feels pretty much like you gave your heart to someone that doesn’t know how to take care of it.

They exhibit erratic and moody behavior and no matter what you try, you just can’t get under it.

iii)They worry about everything

And this causes them to be uncontrollable control freaks that have to be in charge of everything lest it all goes awry.  This quality makes it almost impossible to trust their partner (you). They are doubtful and have abandonment issues and they are afraid of betrayal and these fuels their need to control every situation because of their lack of personal security.

iv) They act superior

Have you ever been around a person that just makes it their mission to make you feel inferior by throwing around all their accomplishments in life? It’s okay to be proud of your accomplishments but boasting around that it makes people uncomfortable is a bit fishy. Your partner is trying to deviate attention from the fact that he may have a few underlying issues and trying to focus it on all the things he’s accomplished like a perfect career, or his elite education or his perfect relationships.

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