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  Do men like romance? The answer is yes, regardless of how much they try to deny it. Guys want to be wooed and treated like a king from time to time, and this serves as a hint to us ladies that we must also give him some. With guys, romance is simple, personal, and straightforward. They look more for the value than the grandeur of their lady’s efforts. Now that we’ve established that men want to be romanced let’s get right on the how. Importance Of Romance In A Relationship Romance is crucial to the success and health of a relationship. When there is no romance, the relationship falls apart. Think of it as the coal to a fire that must be kept burning. When that fire dies, problems like cheating and apathy for one another could occur. Romance keeps the connection and intimacy between partners strong and alive. Romance differentiates a relationship from merely being a friendship. The beautiful thing about it is that it is quickly rekindled. As long as you want to please and show you...

  Relationships are built on the foundation of love, trust, honesty, and loyalty. These foundation stones determine how long a relationship is going to last. There is no specific timeline for a relationship that can make it define as a long term relationship. However, if a relationship lasts longer than 5 or more, it can be considered as a long term relationship. There are 1825 days in five years and almost every day brings a new challenge and how your significant other help you tackle those challenges of your relationship makes you understand if the other person is truly capable of having a long term commitment with you or not. A long term relationship is the one that transforms into a lifetime commitment and over time you get so used to the presence of your partner that it becomes impossible to imagine a life without them. A long term relationship helps you understand what kind of a person your partner actually is because at first nobody appears with all the shades of their perso...

  Like any true Netflix fiend, I also fell into the “Executees it spark joy?” craze. What’s interesting is that my mind translated it into something entirely different from what Marie Kondo intended. I didn’t look at the objects in my home and wonder what sparked joy; I looked at my life and wondered what sparked joy. It wasn’t long before I realized that the more I worked on my relationship with Receded by committing hours to bible study, service, and church, the more joy I felt. The more I prayed about my problems and asked for strength to get through them, the more joy I felt. The more I welcomed Receded into my life, the more joy I felt. Receded has managed to transform me from the inside out, but I had to let Him. I had to open my heart and my mind. I had to be ready. I think getting ready was the hardest part of the whole process because I essentially had to let go of everything I’ve ever wanted or thought I wanted to get there. Having Receded in my life taught me t...

  I hope you are living a life you are proud of. That you wake up every morning knowing you are going to do things that make you genuinely happy. Not the type of life that makes your parents or your spouse happy, but the kind of happy that makes you happy. Follow what brings you joy and allows you to see your potential. I hope you pursue the love that you deserve and that you are not settling for a mediocre love story. You are worth so much more than someone who does not see your value. You deserve to spend your life with someone who appreciates you for everything you bring to the table. Execute not stay with someone who you can live without. There are more extraordinary loves out there, so why be with someone who does not make your heart sing? I hope you have the confidence to leave anything that brings negativity into your life. If your best friend is constantly complaining, find a new one. If you dread going to work every morning, I promise you there is a job out there that insp...

  We all experience relationship breakups. Some end well, and we’re able to move on. Others leave us broken-hearted, and we need time to mend our wounded selves. But sometimes relationships end prematurely. It could be that harsh words were said, and one of you walked out. Or possibly one of you cheated, and the other left because of that. However, maybe you’ve forgiven your ex for any indiscretions. Perhaps the time has passed, and you feel that the relationship deserves a second chance. You could feel more mature now. What bothered you 20 years ago doesn’t matter anymore. Now you want your ex back.  But how do you go about reconnecting with your ex? What is the best way forward? How do you even start to talk to them after you’ve cut off contact? More to the point, do they still have feelings for you? What if you get rejected? What if they don’t feel the same way about you? I think there are two ways to reconnect with your ex, and they both depend on how confident you are. Yo...

  1. I love the way you kiss me, especially the part where I moan and scream the most. 2. I love the touch of your lips when we kiss. I love the rub of your sexy hips when we rub. I love the warmth of your breath on my neck when we hug. 3. Quick question: What do you do when there’s someone you can’t stop fantasizing about, but you have no idea how to talk to them about it? 4. What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available. 5. I’ll invite you over on one condition: You may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you’re going to put them. 6.  If there is one thing I could change about you, it would be your current location …so you could be with me. Compliment him Make your man feel good about himself while getting him in the mood by complimenting him about his body or his bedroom skills. He’ll put in more effort if he notices you noticing. 7. Seeing you [me...

  1.  Personal Experience with Apologies Every girl has been in a situation with her boyfriend. She ends up having a verbal fight about something within the relationship, whether it be fighting over what show to watch, not picking up the laundry from the cleaner’s, or worse, cheating. As women, we always try to win an argument even if we’re wrong, but not all women. Now that you put yourself in a painful situation, you have to make it right. Many women do not take pride in apologizing to people, especially their partners, but it has to be done to continue a healthy relationship. I know, ladies, it’s a hard thing to do, but you need to try for the sake of your relationship. I used to be that girlfriend who was unapologetic and crude. You know the one, the one who always had to have the last word. Still, then you come to realize that not being able to apologize and not being able to take responsibility for your actions can jeopardize your relationship with the person you love. H...

  We’re all familiar with the bubbly feeling of starting to have a crush on someone because people of all ages go through that all the time. The ‘subject’ to your crush maybe your classmate, your colleague, a neighbor, or heck, even your teacher! You don’t choose to get involved in this feeling, it just happens naturally, and that’s why it could get crazy sometimes. We’re talking crazier than crushing on a teacher; imagine having a crush on a taken person – oh, boy!   One thing’s for sure; it’s not something you control. But not every butterfly in your belly translates to a crush, and it’s essential to know the difference! This article will take you through 8 ways to accurately judge whether you have a crush on a certain someone or not. We’ve scattered these eight indicators among different types of crushes to cover more ground, so keep reading!   The Meaning of Having a Crush on Someone Before we get on with defining the indicators of a crush, it’s imperative t...

  There can be usually two possibilities behind the cheating; either there’s something wrong with the relationship, or there’s something wrong with the person himself. Instead of blaming yourself which won’t benefit you in any way, it’s better to realize that there are certain reasons why men cheat that do no involve you at all. It might seem like the worst thing but at least knowing that it wasn’t your fault will surely let you stand up on your feet again. The bitterness won’t last long either. So have a look at this list we compiled for you that why men cheat when it has nothing to do with you: 1. Insecurities The already mentioned issue of ego is the one thing that drives men crazy. It’s like no matter how much you appreciate them they will always end up wanting more and from someone else. The constant desire to be called good in bed and appreciated, it’s like an addiction. So, sweety, it’s not your fault he’s just that desperate, let him go and get insecure with others too. If ...

  i) Constant need for approval If you notice that your partner lives on the attention and recognition given by the outside world rather than being satisfied by his own achievements on his own, then there might be a problem. His happiness seems to depend on you building up their esteem and this can be troublesome because it will be draining the life out you and soon you’ll have nothing left to give. We are not saying that seeking approval once in a while is cause for alarm, we are human after all, but if you notice that he can’t function if people don’t recognize the things he wants them to notice and his self-esteem gets shot to dust then that’s definitely a sign of an insecure person. ii) They are a one-way ticket emotional roller coasters They are up and then down. One minute they love you so much and then the next they have lost interest in you. Sometimes you really can’t tell where you stand with them and it feels pretty much like you gave your heart to someone that doesn’t kn...

  The best relationships go through ebbs and flows. Sometimes things are really good and you can’t imagine your life without them. Other times, you wonder if you’re really happy or could be happier. These are normal feelings and can be worked through, but having that initial conversation with your boyfriend or girlfriend might seem a little tricky. Here’s how to tell them that you’re going through an unhappy spell, but don’t necessarily want to end things. Start suggesting ideas outside of your typical comfort zone. I’m not talking about risque bedroom activities that you’re not into. You should never go outside of your comfort level when it comes to sex. However, maybe you can try to ramp up dates. If your norm is sitting around watching TV, why not try to book a vacation together or take a fun class together? These events can strengthen your relationship in ways you didn’t even realize. Suggest therapy. There’s nothing wrong with therapy and if your partner tells you otherwise, t...

  Although men appear to be intangible and they like to hold on to a ‘nothing can touch me’ attitude, they are humans as well, and many things can get to them. Usually, women are the ones who have a reputation for being sensitive when words are involved. They are the ones in whose presence you have to be careful not to say something that they might misinterpret. But it’s the same thing with men. Have you ever noticed a sudden change on their faces from happy mode to sad or irritating way? That’s not all of a sudden and for no reason as women mostly think. You’ve probably said something that made your man upset. Stay tuned and check out some of the things you might have been saying wrong. 1.  “You’ve failed. Accept it ”If your man is trying hard to succeed in something and fails, you should never tell him he sucks straight up to his face. Try to find a more appropriate and more subtle way of telling him that. Try to do it so you will help him by telling the truth, but at the sa...