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  Finding out your partner is cheating is perhaps one of the most difficult things you can go through in life. What’s even more difficult is when the partner insists they will stop – but continues to betray you time and time again. Oftentimes, we have a sneaking suspicion that our partner is cheating. We may just feel it in our gut, or we may start to realize there are major red flags right in front of our face. And while in some cases, cheating partners can be sloppy- leaving a trail of breadcrumbs right to the affair, others aren’t so obvious. But, no matter how obvious a person may or may not make their betrayal- there will always be subtle hints that show what is truly happening. With that being said, here are 12 things cheating partners do without even realizing it. 1. They frequently pick fights with you. A cheating partner will stop at nothing to get what they want, which is ultimately the ability to have their affair. In turn, they will pick fights with their current partne...

  Love and the pursuit of love is a major overlapping theme in life. We all want to be in love, to feel loved, and to give love, but unfortunately, finding true love is not so easy. Instead, finding love can be a daunting task- and a fruitless pursuit that can leave you questioning everything. For many, we fall for the wrong ones too fast, and without realizing it, we set ourselves up for failure. No matter how badly we may want something to work, when we fall for the wrong one or settle for the wrong one- it will inevitably fail before all is said and done. True love doesn’t have to be forced, and if you are questioning whether the person you are with is your true love, unfortunately, likely, they aren’t. Deep down inside – if you think someone is or isn’t good for you, you are likely right, because your intuition knows. With all of that said, if you are having doubts, here are 12 relationship behaviors that reveal untrue love. 1. You don’t feel like you are part of a team. Relati...

  During our lives, finding love and keeping it is likely one of the most continuous undercurrents we will experience. And perhaps one of the most painful aspects of life is finding love and then realizing it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. In the course of our journey to find love, we also learn to understand what the term love means. And while we may think that we love someone, when the relationship ends, and we move forward and start to face some harsh realizations, we often realize that what we had with them wasn’t love at all. It can be hard to understand the differences when we are amid passion and getting carried away with our own codependency. But regardless of that, no matter what brought us to that person, there is a lesson to be learned and to carry with you. Here are 8 signs that show what you thought was love, wasn’t love at all. 1. You didn’t open up to them. Love is much more than sex, flirting, and fun dates. True love means being open and sharing yourself with ...

  True love cannot be found easily, and especially not in today’s world. You see, people are so busy chasing so many things nowadays, that they barely ever stop to fully admire one thing or one person. They’re always trying to find something new, something presumably better. Only a few people actually stick around. Finding someone who genuinely loves you and cares for you is, without a doubt, one of the hardest things to do. Everyone’s running after something; make sure that you find someone willing to take you along with them. A ‘partner’ is literally someone who goes along with you every step of the way. As I mentioned, there are only a few people who actually stick around are worth the wait. If such a person does come into your life, then you should make sure that you hold onto them strongly and fight for them. Hold these people near and dear to your heart. Let them know their worth, make them realize yours. There are sure signs which help you in identifying whether your guy is ...

 If you’ve never heard of ‘love bombing’ before, you definitely need to learn about it. Love bombing is a tactic that manipulative people use to win over their partners in the beginning stages of their relationship. Everything seems like it’s perfect, almost too good to be true, and once they’re certain that they’ve earned your loyalty and trust, a switch flips and they start to change. Here are some signs that you’re being love bombed that you definitely need to look out for. They overwhelm you in the beginning.  We all dream of finding our Prince Charming or that perfect mate that will woo and romance us at the beginning. Some people really are one in a million and will shower you with love and attention just because they love you and want to show that to you. However, it’s not always as genuine as you might think it is. If you meet someone and right off the bat it seems they are going above and beyond to impress and win you over with gifts and grand gestures, make sure you ...

  No matter how perfect a relationship may be, it only takes a few things (that may seem small at the time) to literally destroy a connection from within and break the two people apart. We try our best to be happy with our partners, the daily struggle, the compromise, everything we do for our partners is only to ensure a more prosperous future with them, so I’m going to share some of the most dangerous things wreck relationships. Here are seven things that kill a relationship. 1.  Some words hurt more than anything else. Be very careful with your words; I can’t stress this point enough; words can never be taken back once they’re out in the open. No matter how angry or upset you are, don’t say anything you’ll regret later; don’t say anything to hurt your partner because you might apologize more than intentionally, but they’ll always remember what you said, and it’ll still hurt. Be kind with your words. 2.  Keeping quiet about something It’s very destructive when someone st...

 The world doesn’t have enough romantics around anymore. I pride myself over how romantic I am and how sentimental I am with my girlfriend. I’ve had a lot of guy friends tell me things like I’m a little too emotional, sentimental etc. A lot of people have actually gone as far as calling me weak. But I don’t really care about that, I enjoy being a romantic person, it has a lot of perks. This article is going to be for all of you fellow men out there reading this article, this is about the sweet little things you can do for her to make her feel special and loved. Let’s begin: 1. Spa day! Women love to pamper themselves, they love it even more if their men arrange it for them. It gives them a very special feeling of being taken care of that’s very romantic and superior to a lot of things. Book a spa day for her and surprise her with it. Let her have her day of pampering. She’s going to love you a lot for it and she will never forget it. 2. Watch her favourite movie together This also ...

  It is believed that after seven years of a marriage, the happiness starts wavering. If you get through this, it’s most probably going to last. Seven years is a considerable amount of time. A lot can change during these times. You might have gone through a lot. You would’ve had numerous fall outs, major life style changes, differences with not only each other but the respective families as well and what not. There might have been good times as well as bad times. And to live through these, you could hopefully benefit from the following things: 1.  See the humour in things Everybody appreciates a good sense of humour. Don’t ever let anything get too serious. Learn to laugh at yourself. Try keeping things on the lighter side. You can always save a situation with a good laugh. However, be careful with your timing or you might end up worsening things. 2.  Discover how you express love This is different for everyone as well. We all have our own way of professing our love. Sinc...

  Is it possible to love your partner again after a divorce? If there was love, why would it lead to a divorce in the first place? People change. You are ten times wiser and less impulsive than you were ten years ago. Timing may not be right back then but it doesn’t mean it’s not right now. Everyone has their own reason for a divorce. You chose your career back then, only to realize you value a family more today. If fate does bring you back together, it is possible to love again. The real obstacle to love again after a divorce isn’t convincing yourself he has changed, because people change all the time, it doesn’t take a miracle to believe in that. The real question is how to look past the past trauma and forget about the wounds he left you so you can throw yourself completely at him without holding back. Two types of people will end a divorce in happiness, those that never loved and those that are completely broken-hearted they no longer feel anything for their partner. In both ca...

  Being sexually frustrated does not only mean that something is definitely wrong with you and that you are spiraling down into a misery existence. In fact, according to experts, sexual frustration is a very modern and common problem that’s rooted in your sexual behavior. It is often caused by a lack of intimate connections or very bad such connections. However, diving even deeper into the issue, its causes are many, from physical to emotional and mental trouble caused by your relationship or lack thereof. In this article, we will help you discover why you might be sexually frustrated and what you should do to solve this pressing issue that, in time, can definitely become worse and seriously affect your quality of life and relationships with other people. What Is Sexually Frustrated? Before telling you what might cause this sexual frustration, it’s important to know right from the get-go what does this problem actually means. Not having sex for a long time or having bad sex can lea...